There’s a reason why cowgirl (a.k.a. woman in top) is one of guys’ all-time favorite sex positions, and it’s not just because it provides a spectacular view from below. When your partner (of any gender!) is on top, they can take full control of the rhythm and speed of sex-which may just help you last longer in bed. If your partner has a vulva, they’re more likely to orgasm, too, since they can control exactly where and how hard you hit you to area of the internal clitoris known as the Grams-put. It’s a win-win for everyone involved.
Experiences though your task will get easier in case the companion climbs near the top of your in bed, that does not mean you can simply sit back and you will settle down.